The Things I CAN Change

When it comes to health and fitness, there is a lot that we can control.  things we very much CAN controlBut there are also things that we can’t control.  And unfortunately, many people think that they can’t control some of the things we very much CAN control.  We can’t control the fact that we age daily and we might have genes that can cause various illnesses and disease.  Gender and family history are also things you can’t change.  But time and again, people who come to seek advice and coaching in order to improve their health and wellness, are full of misconceptions about what they can change.  Meaning, through changing my daily habits and behaviors, what can be changed and what can’t be?  If I change my eating habits, lose some weight, exercise and control my stress, what improvements can I make and what things are NOT under my control?

The two things that I hear the most from people are 1) “there is nothing I can do, I have bad genes” and 2) “I was born with a slow metabolism—I’ll never lose weight”.

Let’s first talk about “bad genes”.  Andrea came to see me several years ago.  Of course, as I hear many times, she said, “I’ve tried everything and I think it must be my genes”.  She proceeded to tell me about her overweight siblings and parents and she also told me they all have ended up with type 2 diabetes, heart disease and her doctor just informed her that she is now a borderline diabetic.  So I explained to her that it is true that there might be some genetic component in her problems of being overweight and that there is a slight genetic component in type 2 diabetes, most of her issues can be helped to a great extent by improving her habits.  (There is a one in seven chance that if one of your parents had type 2 diabetes before age 50 and one in 13 if after age 50, you will get it also).  But one must examine the lifestyle habits of the parents.  We grow up in the same household and develop similar eating and exercise habits. So many times what we think is genetic, is actually something called Epigenetics

Researchers at the Washington University School of Medicine in St. Louis first did a study on almost 40,000 people in the early 1990’s.  They found that addictive genes had NO impact on body weight.  People were just as likely to be obese whether they came from a family with these bad genes or not.  But a follow-up study of 40,000 other subjects 10 years later was done, the picture was very different.  Subjects were 30%-40% more likely to be obese if they had addictive genes in the family. And for women, the chance was 50% greater.  So, what changed?Genetics

Our genes didn’t change in 10 years!  But there were changes in our environment that switched on individual genes.  This is known as epigenetics.  The basis of epigenetics is environmental cues.  For instance, if you live in a community where there is opportunity for consumption of fresh foods and people exercise, the genes that control your weight operate as they should, and you can enjoy a fit and healthy body.  But let’s look at the opposite example: You start your day with a disagreement with someone, and then you run out the door without breakfast, you drive to your destination getting there hungry.  You sit down at your desk.  At this point, levels of acetylcholine and cortisol, both stress hormones that trigger hunger get to very high levels.  To undo your “pain”, you go for a fix of some food that is generally fatty, sugary, or salty. The more this cycle repeats itself, the more it reinforces itself.  You can’t change the genes you are born with, but you can change the genetic expression. According to Dr. Pamela Peek, MD, “Lifestyle choices powerfully influence genetic expression—and most important, they are passed on to children.  So making the proper choices in any situation is really key and whereas genes can have a big influence, ultimately it is your choice in any given situation that is the ultimate determinate”. Andrea was convinced and we began the process of taking on good health habits week by week and although it was a slow process, she lost weight and got her blood sugar down to good levels.  She clearly had genetic tendencies, but was able to improve her situation in spite of that.

Naftali was a relatively young man but very overweight.  fast metabolismHis mother said the whole family suffers from a slow metabolism.  I believed her but told her that a slow metabolism can be improved.  Having a good understanding of one’s own metabolism is a great place to start. The term metabolism simply refers to the chemical processes that occur within the body to maintain life. These processes require energy, burn energy and produce energy, which significantly impacts each person’s fitness and weight-management outcomes.  Interestingly, each person’s metabolism is different in terms of speed and effectiveness. As mentioned before, your age, gender and genes can contribute to your metabolism, but lifestyle choices related to eating, physical activity and sleep also play significant roles. While you can’t change some of these factors, you can make better lifestyle choices, which will help increase the effectiveness of your metabolism, which will, in turn, help you achieve your health and fitness goals.   speed up your basic metabolic The main goals, in order to speed up your basic metabolic rate is to build muscle through resistance training, to eat small meals more often, to stay adequately hydrated, manage and reduce stress and get enough sleep.  It also helps to avoid artificial sweeteners, eat hot and spicy foods and drink a few cups of green tea each day.  None of these are magic fixes by themselves, however, when combined with the first 5 tips mentioned, they can be effective.

Naftali began working on these behaviors and after several months he slowly began to lose weight.  In his case, having enough patience was also a big part of his success.  Yes, metabolism can be increased with the right amount of work focus and patience.

In conclusion, yes, there are things beyond our control.  improving what can be controlledBut we need to know that many things we might think are not in our control actually are.  Aside from that, we have to work on the areas of our health that can be controlled and not give up just because some things might be stacked up against us.  Making the effort to improve those areas of our life that CAN be controlled will “add hours to your day, days to your year, and years to your life.”


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